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Healing from Past Pain: How Our Past Affects Our Mental Health and Growth

Mar 31, 2025

In the sermon from Pastor Jackson at Cypress Church, we were invited to explore the transformation of the apostle Peter, who had to confront and overcome deep-seated prejudice in order to fulfill God's calling on his life.


This message not only reflects the spiritual journey of Peter but also mirrors the emotional and psychological healing many of us experience as we address unresolved pain from our past. Just like Peter had to confront his prejudices and biases, we often find that our emotional wounds—whether from past trauma, guilt, or shame—can hold us back from personal growth, happiness, and healthy relationships.


Unresolved emotional issues such as guilt, shame, or trauma can leave individuals feeling paralyzed, stuck in negative thought patterns or unable to move forward in life. In the sermon, Pastor Jackson highlighted how Peter's heart had to undergo a refining process before he could fully step into his purpose. "Before God can ever use us to accomplish the purposes that he set out for us long ago, He has to complete a work in our hearts," Pastor Jackson said.


Similarly, we often need to go through a process of emotional healing to unlock our potential. In the Bible story, Peter had to overcome his prejudice to engage with those he once considered unclean. This act of transformation reflects the kind of inner work we also have to do when it comes to our own emotional healing. Much like Peter, we may face uncomfortable truths about our emotional scars that have been shaped by past experiences, making it difficult to see beyond our pain or forgive ourselves.


Just like Peter encountered a man named Anas who had been physically paralyzed for eight years, we often feel emotionally paralyzed by our unresolved issues. For Anas, his paralysis kept him from functioning normally, just as unresolved emotional wounds keep many of us from living life fully. When Pastor Jackson spoke about how Peter made the decision to heal Anas, it mirrored the choice we all have to make in our own emotional healing journey. "We can choose to let our past define us, or we can choose to take steps to heal and move forward," Pastor Jackson reminded us. The story of Peter’s healing of Anas highlights how one moment of kindness and transformation can break years of stagnation. In the same way, seeking healing from past pain, whether through therapy, self-reflection, or spiritual practices, can lead to emotional freedom that allows us to live with purpose.


The mental toll that unresolved emotional issues take on us is significant. These issues can lead to anxiety, depression, and an inability to fully embrace the present or future. It's common for individuals to be stuck in patterns of negative self-talk, fear of rejection, or the belief that they are unworthy of happiness or success. These thought patterns often stem from early life experiences or unresolved trauma that continues to affect our daily lives. It’s important to understand that healing from past emotional wounds is not just about addressing the pain itself but also allowing ourselves to grow through it. Healing from pain involves letting go of limiting beliefs, forgiving ourselves for past mistakes, and making space for growth and renewal.


Therapeutic techniques like Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) offer proven methods to help individuals confront these emotional wounds. CBT helps people challenge negative thoughts and behaviors that stem from past experiences, while EMDR targets trauma-related memories to process them in a healthier way. CBT works by helping individuals identify and reframe the beliefs that were formed as a result of past trauma, helping to break cycles of negative thinking that prevent healing. EMDR, on the other hand, is a more specialized approach that helps process traumatic memories by using eye movements or other forms of bilateral stimulation to help the brain reprocess and store the trauma in a way that reduces its emotional charge. These techniques allow individuals to process and release emotions that have been bottled up, which is crucial in the journey of emotional healing. We use both modalities at our practice, Teal Saguaro Wellness.


Just as Peter had to learn to look at people—including those who were considered unclean or outside his community—with new eyes, we can begin to see ourselves and others through a more compassionate lens once we address our own emotional healing.


Healing from past wounds often requires shifting our mindset and reframing how we view ourselves. When we’ve experienced pain, whether physical, emotional, or relational, it’s common for us to view ourselves through the lens of that pain.


Just as Peter had to overcome prejudice to see the full worth of every individual, we too must let go of the negative labels and judgments we've placed on ourselves because of our past. By recognizing that our past does not define us, we can move toward healing and allow God's love to transform how we see ourselves and others.


Peter’s journey of transformation was about overcoming ingrained prejudice, and for us, the journey toward healing involves overcoming the prejudices we hold against ourselves—those negative beliefs about who we are or what we deserve. When we can release those beliefs, we allow ourselves the freedom to heal, grow, and move forward into a future filled with hope. This is not an easy process; it requires vulnerability, courage, and sometimes the willingness to face painful truths about our past. Yet, when we begin to heal from our emotional wounds, we make room for growth and deeper connections with others. We can begin to embrace the love and forgiveness that God offers us, and in turn, we can offer that same grace to others. Just like Peter’s work in spreading the message of Jesus, we, too, are called to spread compassion, forgiveness, and the message of healing in our own lives, breaking free from the constraints of our past.


In life, we all encounter moments when we feel stuck, trapped by our past mistakes or the hurt caused by others. Just as Peter had to let go of his own bias and step into a new way of thinking, we too must confront the emotional baggage we carry. When we allow ourselves to heal, we not only create space for personal growth but also for healthier relationships with others. We can forgive others, forgive ourselves, and move forward with a sense of purpose. Healing from past pain is not easy, but with the right support and willingness to face the wounds head-on, it is possible to transform and live a life filled with purpose, peace, and compassion.


So, as you reflect on the journey of Peter, consider how your own past might be holding you back. Do you need to release guilt or shame? Is there unresolved trauma that’s keeping you from moving forward? Healing is a journey, and it's one worth taking. If you feel emotionally paralyzed by your past, know that there is hope for healing and a future filled with joy and freedom. With the right tools, support, and faith, we can break free from our past and step into the bright future God has for us. As Pastor Jackson said, "God has an amazing plan for your life. But before He can ever use us to accomplish the purposes He set out for us long ago, He has to complete a work in our hearts." Let's embrace this journey of healing and open ourselves up to the fullness of God’s love and grace.


If you would like to schedule an appointment and begin your healing journey, please start by giving us a call at 614-647-HELP.

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